Surgery & The Two Year Old.

Super Secret Liam Pants needs surgery.  I’ve known that he wasn’t breathing right through his nose.  Eric and I both saw this.  The one week we turned off his humidifier at night landed us in the ER where he was given epinephrine, steroids, and breathing treatments.

Our pediatrician didn’t think his breathing was too much to be concerned with and before we all get on the dump the pediatrician band wagon I LOVE our pediatrician and from what I found out yesterday it wasn’t his fault nothing was done sooner.  SSLP wasn’t turning blue and he had adapted to not breathing right, weird I know.  The boy takes being uncomfortable and not showing it to a whole new level.

After meeting with a Speech Pathologist for his language delay from being a preemie she noted she thought he wasn’t breathing right through his nose so this is why his mouth was always open and he was a drooling fool.  That Monday I called the Pediatric ENT who snipped SSLP’s tongue at a week old and we went in yesterday.  I’m not a bad mom for waiting, he never did turn blue, didn’t act like he was in pain or uncomfortable, and seemed content.  My husbands family has sinus problems so until we realized he couldn’t breathe through his nose from really watching I didn’t feel the need to rush in.  Now I had reason to get in right away.

Yesterday after having this little camera so thin and long put up his nose we find that his adenoids are blocking 90% of his nose and ear passage way causing fluid in his ears so not only can he not breathe but he’s not hearing us correctly.  He can hear but muffled.  Not only that but his tonsils are naturally large so….

Surgery to remove the adenoids and tonsils plus tubes in his ears to help drain the fluid.  I cried, yep…I called my husband and cried.

I’ve never had my tonsils out but I hear it can be quite painful.  He’s having not just his tonsils but the adenoids removed as well.  He’s two, he can’t talk so he’s not going to be able to really express himself.

We will get through this.  He’s so independent.  He’s such a smart boy.  We heard and knew that he’s a typical two year old but he just can’t talk right.  With all that’s going on in his little head no wonder he can’t talk right.

What I hope and know will come from this is that SSLP will be able to breathe with his mouth closed.  Not take breaks when drinking things and will talk before we all know it.  I’m looking forward to no humidifier on at night and to him sleeping while breathing perfectly.

I was right on this one, so was Eric.  I’m glad this is being taken care of now because even though he will be uncomfortable he won’t remember this when he’s older…..I hope.

Super Secret Liam Pants – Super Hero!

6 responses to “Surgery & The Two Year Old.”

  1. Oh Katherine! I know it must be imaginably scary, I cried when they put Brooklyn and Skyker out to have their teeth work done. I think the great outcome to this will be that, after the adenoids are removed and the fluids drained from his ears, his hearing will improve and his speech might develop fast because everything he was hearing was muffled before! Great mom and Dad for getting all of this together and done! When is his survey? I just Saw a little 4 year old after tonsil surgery and he was just a little comfortable after surgery, kids are tough! Prayers !

    1. Thanks Vanessa. I’m think I’m worried because they are putting him under and saying we have to stay the night in the hospital. Under the age of three they need to stay overnight.

      He has his surgery in August. First available was August 2nd but Kaila returns from sleep away camp the next day so that isn’t going to work. August 30th is the date for now unless something opens up and the ENT wasn’t concerned because Liam’s been living this way his whole life. He just told us to keep the humidifier on at night and know that we may want to wait for the speech therapy to start.

  2. Kat,
    While it sounds so scary for you and Eric it is so typical these days. Evan had this same procedure when he was 4. He wasn’t talking completely as he should for his age, snoring, and constanct ear infections. His adonoids we so big and he too wasn’t hearing completely. He was fine within a few days and it was the best thing we did.

    As an early childhood educator, I can tell you just this past year we had I believe 4 kids who had the same procedure. You guys are great parents and he will be a whole new little guy.

    1. Thanks Diane. I’m worried because of his age being two and all. Kaila bounces back so easily that I hope Liam does too. We were told two weeks to recover. I hope that isn’t the case. Again, thanks 🙂

  3. Oh man! What a trooper your little guy is. I’m glad you were able to get this all figured out and are able to do something about it now so that he can breath and hear better! My heart goes out to you! ❤

    1. Thanks so much!! We need to get together before his surgery. Maybe you’ll be ready to venture out with both boys.

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